I’ve had a bad day today, I feel like my anxiety takes over some days. However, I find it’s the best time to open up to you guys. So after the traumatic birth, my son needing surgery and having stents to keep his airways open, I next had to go to Liverpool hospital. When Oakley…

Hi my darlings thank you to all my readers. I’m glad I can be open and honest on here. I appreciate every single one of you. I suppose you’re all wondering what happened next. I had no idea my son was struggling to breathe. All I knew is that the hospital checked him over when…

Hello and welcome to my first ever blog! I’m Talia, I’m a mother of 4 – Siennah who’s 9, Romeo who’s 3, Maddox who’s 2 and Oakley who’s 10 months old. Yes I had 3 babies in 2 and half years! There’s so much I am looking forward to telling you all about. But for…

Hey everyone, thank you so much for all your support on my blog, I’ve been so overwhelmed with all the amazing comments and the amount of you that have signed up. I’m so grateful and excited that you’re all so invested in my journey and I’m really excited to keep writing these for you! So…

I just want to say a massive thank you for taking the time to read and subscribe to my blog. I hope you know that I appreciate every single one of you who are following my journey. It takes a lot for me to open up on my platform but it’s also like therapy for…

I suppose you are all still wondering why I don’t know what had happened to my baby? The truth is I still do not know how or why… and I’m 11 months in. Let me go back to when Oakley was just 3 days old – I was in a room on my own and…

Where do I start with this? Talia asked me to write a blog about that day. The emotions attached to Oakley’s birth are off key! Along with the events leading up to it and after it. My name is Sonia and I’m Talia’s mum. From the day that Talia found out she was pregnant it…

Hey everyone! In this blog I’m taking it back to when Oakley first came home with us. The first night at home was very hard for us as parents. I felt like a 1st time mum again. Having a child with additional needs is a totally different experience. I had to keep saying to myself…

Happy New Year my lovelies, I just want to say I hope this year brings you all happiness and health. That’s all that matters in life.  So where did I leave off? Oakley’s first major Craniofacial surgery. The hospital let me stay in the high dependency unit with Oakley on the night of the operation.…

2nd of March 2023. The day I had to man up. Oakley was doing as good as could be. I was such a proud mum. He was showing me what true strength was. I felt like the weak one constantly being in tears around him. It was guilt, guilt he had to go through these…